Finding a therapist can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. Whether you’re dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship challenges, trauma, or just want someone to talk to, finding the best therapist for you can make a big difference. Here’s a simple guide to help you find the right professional.
1. What’s going on?
Start by thinking about why you want therapy, and why now? Are you struggling with making a decision, depression, relationship issues, difficulty sleeping, making yourself a priority, sudden transitions, or just life? Knowing what you want or need can help you find a licensed professional who specializes in the areas you need support.
2. Understand the Different Types of Therapists
Therapists come in different forms:
- Psychologists: Have doctoral degrees and are usually involved in diagnostic testing for ADHD, handling forensic cases, diagnosing complex trauma.
- Licensed Mental Health Counselors, Licensed Clinical Social Workers, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMHCs/LCSWs/LMFT): Have a minimum Master’s Degree from an accredited University. They are trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and provide individual, marital, and family psychotherapy and counselling for support for everyday and diverse challenges. Some have Ph.D.’s and may be certified addiction professionals, or certified in play therapy for children and adolescents.
- Other Behavioral Specialists: Some therapists have specialty training working with couples, teens, trauma, addiction. These specialty training can include trauma informed therapies such as approaches EMDR, Brainspotting, DBT, and Yoga Therapy.
Knowing the type of training or expertise of the therapist you want can make your search easier. Also ask how long they have been in practice.
3. Look at Local Options
Jupiter has many qualified therapists. You can start your search with:
- Psychology Today – Filter by location, specialty, insurance, and whether they offer in-person or online sessions.
- EMDRIA.org. IAYT.org, and Brainspotting International – Great for finding a trauma/somatic therapist by zip code.
- Other directories such as The Gottman web site for couple’s therapy, doing a Google Search, asking a Primary Care Physician, or a trusted friend can also help you narrow your choices.
4. Consider Practical Details
- Location & Schedule: Pick a therapist you can get to easily, or consider online sessions if the therapist you find is not near you.
- Cost & Insurance: Sessions can vary in price, but many therapists offer sliding-scale fees or take insurance.
- Experience: Years of experience can matter, but your comfort with the therapist is even more important.
5. Check for a Good Personal Fit
The best therapist is someone you feel comfortable with and can trust. Pay attention to:
- Do you feel heard and understood?
- Are they approachable and kind? Sometimes a direct and attuned therapist may also be helpful.
- Do they help you clarify goals for your sessions?
Even if a therapist has great credentials, it’s okay to switch if it doesn’t feel right.
6. Start With a few sessions…
Use 1-3 sessions to see how it feels to talk with them. Trust your gut—if you feel comfortable and supported, it’s a good match.
7. Take Your Time
Finding the right therapist is a personal, private, and confidential journey. Don’t rush it. With a little research, you can find someone who fits your needs, your style, and your life.
Final Thought
Therapy is about finding a qualified professional therapist in Jupiter who can hold the space where you can grow, heal, and feel supported. By thinking about what you need, looking at options, and trusting your instincts, you can find a therapist who’s the right fit for you.
Dr. Kathy Shafer
LCSW, CAP, C-IAYT, 500RYT, LFYT
Psychotherapist, Certified Trauma and Yoga Therapist, Author, Speaker